Domestic Abuse
Help and advice if you or anyone you know is experiencing domestic abuse
- What is domestic abuse?
- Get help now
- Help for LGBTQ+ people
- Help for men
- I need to leave my home because of domestic violence
What is domestic abuse?
Domestic abuse can happen to anyone.
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Domestic abuse can mean any kind of violent, threatening, bullying or controlling behaviour between people in a relationship. It can be physical, emotional, sexual, financial and psychological.
It can include so-called 'honour-based' violence or abuse such as female genital mutilation (FGM) and forced marriage.
If you're experiencing domestic abuse you should get help immediately.
Remember that you are not to blame - never be afraid to ask for help and support.
- Read Victim Support's guidance on spotting the signs of relationship abuse. (opens new window)
- Read the legal definition of domestic abuse in the Domestic Abuse Act 2021.
Get help now
If you are in an emergency situation, call 999. If you are unable to talk, stay on the line and press 55 when prompted.
For non-emergency advice from the police, call 101.
Help from the 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline
- Call 0808 2000 247 (freephone)
- Visit the National Domestic Abuse Helpline website
Further advice and support
- Cambridgeshire & Peterborough Domestic Abuse and Sexual Violence Partnership (DASV)
- Domestic Abuse Support Service (DASS) - IMPAKT. Call 0300 3731073, email DASSreferrals@impakt.org.uk or visit their website.
- National Centre for Domestic Violence (NCDV): Call 0800 970 2070, text 'NCDV' to 60777 or visit their website.
- Pharmacies, including Boots and Superdrug, are offering their consulting rooms as Safe Spaces for victims of domestic abuse. Walk into any of the pharmacies taking part and ask to use their Safe Space. The room will contain all of the information you need and provide a sanctuary to make relevant calls.
Help for LGBTQ+ people
If you are in a same-sex relationship you can call the National LGBT+ Domestic Violence Helpline on 0800 999 5428.
Help for men
Men can get targeted help through the Men's Advice Line.
Call 0808 801 0327 (freephone).
Lines are open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm.
I need to leave my home because of domestic abuse
You may decide to leave your home if you are at risk from domestic abuse.
If you can, you should try to organise temporary accommodation before you leave. We realise this will not always be possible. You should always leave your home if it is not safe for you to live there.
However, you should speak to us as soon as you can. We may be able to help you move back to your home and live there safely at a later date.
Email us at housingadvice@fenland.gov.uk or call 01354 654321 and ask for housing advice.
If you need to leave your home, we strongly advise that you do not, for example:
- post your door keys through your letterbox
- return your door keys to your landlord
Actions like this could indicate you have left your home permanently. It may make it difficult for us to help you move back if and when it is safe to do so.
Read Refuge's advice about planning to leave home.